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Healing before marriage

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          Healing Before Marriage                                                                              If I ever had a opportunity to go back and do things different when I was single, then I would. I would spent more time focusing on me, I would spent more time healing, I would spent more time loving myself, I've would spent more time learning how to be a wife, I would spend more time with God, and I would spend more time enjoying being a single parent. Its safe to say that I didn't enjoy my single season like I should've. I love and adore my husband, my children and my life today; however I do realize that if I would've spent my single season wisely, a lot of things could've been avoided in marriage.  I still had a lot of unresolved issues that I needed to address before getting married.  I had father issues, and a lot of  trauma from a previous abusive relationship. These were things that I didn't realize until I got married. Like most people, I wante